My (25F) sister in law (31F) is driving me insane

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2022.01.19 13:54 penguinpaver My (25F) sister in law (31F) is driving me insane

So I (25F) am starting to resent my (31F) SIL who we will call Tess for the sake of this post.
For background me and Tess have known each other for about 3 years, up to now we have had a great relationship and she has been like a sister to me.
About 10 months ago she met her current SO (28m) who we will call Ralph. I've not liked Ralph or their relationship ever since it began, I think Ralph is a complete loser and has only brought problems into Tess's life.
To give a few examples, he was in prison for selling drugs, has lost custody of his child, lost his job for stealing, and basically guilted Tess into stopping taking her contraception and getting pregnant after being together for 6 months among many other things.
Since Tess met this guy she has turned into a completely different person and does everything to make this man's life easier including putting him over her child from a previous relationship (10F).
Her daughter practically lives with my inlaws as she doesn't like Ralph and can noticeably see that Tess is changing and putting her to one side.
Now to the point where I feel like she's taking advantage of me and driving me crazy. I have a stepdaughter that I take to school every other week and for the last 2 months, Tess will call me super early in the morning to take her daughter to school as well because "she has to take ralph to a new job" or " she needs more time to get ready for work" or she just drops her off at the school gates and asks me to wait until she goes in since I'm already there anyway.
She is also constantly asking me and my SO to loan them money as they can't afford to pay their bills and now owes us a couple of hundred dollars, yet when Ralph gets any bit of money will spend it on clothes or gifts for them.
She constantly complains about him and calls me anytime they have an argument or a problem which is always, yet when I give her advice, and options to leave him she refuses to take it and says that she loves him and feels sorry for him.
I'VE tried avoiding them but we live so close that it's impossible and I've told my SO that it needs to stop and he agrees but he always ends up helping them out for the sake of his sister.
I'm at a loss at what to do, I'm so frustrated and don't know how to handle this situation as it's getting to a point where I might explode and make everything worse for everyone.
Any advice would be great.
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